With today’s parenting culture of unattainable expectations and incessant demands, it is no wonder so many of us suffer from "Shitty Parent Syndrome" —the perception that one is a crummy parent—leaving us feeling confused and insecure about how to raise our children. In this thought-provoking episode, we talk with Carla Naumburg, author of "You Are Not a Sh*tty Parent: How to Practice Self-Compassion and Give Yourself a Break." She shares her insights on parenting, self-compassion, and curiosity. She challenges the notion of being a "shitty parent" and emphasizes the importance of embracing self-compassion and curiosity to become better parents. 

Topics Discussed:


1. Shifting perspectives: There's no such thing as a "shitty parent."

2. The power of self-compassion.

3. Navigating the sea of parenting information.

4. The double-edged sword of excessive parenting information.

5. Filling the gap between knowledge and implementation.

6. Carving out time for self-care.

7. Examining time constraints vs. priorities.

8. Modeling a healthy and balanced life for children.

9. Embracing curiosity for better understanding.

10. Creating an open and compassionate space for communication.

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