Dec. 12, 2023

How to Cope When Bad Shit Goes Down

How to Cope When Bad Shit Goes Down

Life inevitably deals us setbacks that feel devastating in the moment. Whether it's a business crash, losing your health, or having ambitious creative passion projects flop, tribulations strike even the most conscientious among us. The question is: how do you bounce back? How can you channel the pain into progress?

Inspirational author James Fell has experienced this cycle repeatedly, ultimately using relentless optimism and reinvention to turn trauma into triumph. After initial fitness books stalled, James pivoted to self-help writing. He devoted years crafting a motivational book positioning epiphanies as catalysts for life-changing redirection.

The book spotlighted James’ principle that integrated personal responsibility with finding your higher purpose and taking action. But after publication, painful reality set in quickly - the title simply didn’t resonate in today’s market. Instincts pushed most readers toward passively consuming motivation rather than doing self-work.

Blindsided by this second literary strikeout, the resulting financial strain was exacerbated by Covid decimating James’ burgeoning public speaking career next. "It was a spectacular sh*t-nado of ass,” he recalls.

Yet with two kids, a mortgage, and his wife’s medical career to support them, giving up wasn’t an option. James remembered the core message of his faltered book - epiphanies change trajectories. He needed inspiration, fast.

Rather than contingency planning, his breakthrough arrived unexpectedly on a bike ride. James conjured an idea for Facebook posts sharing little-known history tales rife with profanity and humor. Just to try it, he posted one such mini-story that performed fairly average. But analytics showed enough engagement glimmers to compel James to post another the next day.

The second post introduced a courageous 1920s actress who relentlessly championed taboo topics. That post exploded, gaining 300% typical traction. Commenters insisted James create a daily series spanning years...including turning content into a book.

Epiphany achieved! James felt galvanized to make this concept work, however outrageous. He ultimately wrote hundreds of unfiltered history posts over 2 years. All the while, anxious ADHD tendencies threatened to sabotage progress—Hyperfocus on maximizing book sales revenue to counter financial threats often distracted from health or personal balance. Yet through medication assistance, James managed symptoms while harnessing pure passion toward output.

Unapologetic social media promotion, amplifying the unique voice and intimate fan community around his project, accelerated sales rapidly. James ultimately sold thousands of books just during 2021, sans publisher support. But traditional publishing deals beckoned next including one for his best-seller, On This Day In History, Shit Went Down.

James Fell achieved his lifelong literary dream by evolving strategies, applying science-based insights about behavioral change, and circling back to his core skills.

The takeaway is that personal development and content creation cultures fixate on rigid planning, but cannot account for the inevitability of setbacks. Chaos contains opportunities when you study how to ride the waves skillfully and then help others do the same. Each fresh start breeds invaluable direction. Progress perpetually arises from unexpected tunnels.

Apply James’ principles of merging idealism with practicality, taking smart risks, and promoting shamelessly to turn your hidden potential into sustainable reality too. Thriving through instability relies on mastering self-awareness, flexibility and consistent resilience training over time.

To hear James Fell tell his full story in a riveting interview, check out The Fit Mess podcast episode #231 at www.thefitmess.com/231. You’ll learn exactly how James reinvented himself repeatedly on the pathway to prosperity by ultimately embracing uncertainty and change.